We all have intimacy “drives.” We are biologically wired for love. However much love we have in our relationship, it is fairly normal to want more.
However we all seem to act like love is some rare emotion that we have no control over. That we have to be graced with it from outside. That it’s not up to us. That we have no power when it comes to love.
But if you want to triple the love you feel in your relationship, don’t look at love like some special visitor. You can create love. You can add it into your relationship on purpose. You have some control over the amount of love in your life.
You can create love in your life. You can cause more of it in your relationship. You can choose to build love and take actions to make it happen.
How can you create triple the love? There are many ways, but a great place to start is instead of looking for love look to give love. Give love away. If you give it, more will come.
How in the world do you do that? Well, take ten minutes a day and find ways to love up your mate. Give them a shoulder massage. Ask them about their day and then really listen and make them feel heard and understood when they respond. Go for a walk around the block with them.
What you do with them doesn’t matter so much as how you do it. Give your mate your complete kind attention for ten whole minutes. Make them right. Surrender to them and serve them for ten whole minutes. Be loving to them!
Here’s the relationship insight: if you give love, you find that you can cause it. That you don’t have to sit around hoping for it. This simple practice can sometimes begin to change the feel of your whole relationship. There’s much more to this, but simply giving love for ten minutes a day can change everything.
You can learn much more about this in the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Never Learned In School True Love Advice. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get more here Love Relationship Advice.