What if I told you that you boy
friend isn’t serious about you…?
He isn’t committed to you?
He is NEVER going to marry y
Sorry for being the one to drop a bombshell.
But the fact is men are the most unpredictable beings…you never know, what’s going in their minds (until the last moment).
You must have heard the horrible stories of men changing their minds about marriage at the very last moment.
Just because you two have been dating for one or two years, okay maybe for three years doesn’t mean he is the ONE, and he is going to be serious about the relationship and put a ring on it.
Even for a split second you believed t
he notion, then, I, my friend, welcome you to the fool’s paradise.
So without wasting any more time than you already have, let’s get to the Nittyy gritty.
Signs he is never going to marry you
Here are the 6 signs that you need to look for in your man to know that he is never going to marry you:
I need more time
Whenever, you broach the subject of marriage, his body language changes. He starts getting nervous. The only answer you get out of him is, “I need more time.” Here, I need more time is synonymous to No; I don’t want to marry you.
Hello! How much more time do you need, even three year time wasn’t good enough for you? You are not buying a MacBook or a home appliance here that you need more time to decide which brand best suits your budget or needs.
If a guy who doesn’t give a clear cut answer that yes that’s you who he wants to marry and spend rest of his life with, is seriously not worth keeping. He is just gaining time; he already has his mind made up about you and yes you are not included in his future plans.
We are great friends
It’s okay to talk dirty, it’s okay to have little fun on the couch, but hey we are only great friends, okay?! Just Great! If you can’t make him call you his girlfriend, do you seriously think you hold a chance of marriage with the guy?
3. Subtle hints here and there about not interested in marriage
He keeps on dropping subtle hints every now and then that he doesn’t believe in marriage, or marriage isn’t his thing. Now when a guy says he doesn’t believe in marriage what he actually means is that he doesn’t believe in marriage with you.
He talks about his future that doesn’t include you
Whenever he talks about his future plans, they surprisingly never include you. He doesn’t do this on purpose but yes you are never on his mind when he talks about his future.
He doesn’t take you to meet his friends/family
He keeps you as a secret, secret from the world. He doesn’t take you to meet his family or friends. It clearly shows he doesn’t consider you as a part of him or someone worthy he would have liked to introduce to his family. Actions speak louder than words. Run, girl, run. He isn’t meant for you.
6. He doesn’t want a relationship but wants relationship benefits
He doesn’t want to confess you are his girlfriend. He doesn’t want to marry you. But he wants all the benefits that come with a relationship. The only reason he is probably with you is he wants to get inside your panties…yes he is looking for free sex. No strings attached. Well, if sex is what he is after, then he might as well buy it. Don’t give him the satisfaction, its high time you kicked him where the sun doesn’t shine.